Tip # 64 Its not what you say, its HOW you say it
No one says ending a relationship is easy. There have been documented accounts of people turning suicidal after a break-up, separation or divorce. They fall into a depression, and a few are unable to come out of it whole and able to trust again.
But if you procrastinate because youre worried about the aftermath, youll only be doing the other person a disservice. Talk to your mate when you have full rein of your emotions.
Yes, honesty is still the best policy but this is where youll have to optimize on your diplomats skills. Choose your words, and dwell on the positive. Convince her that both of you would be better off with somebody else. Offer to remain friends so the transition is not emotionally devastating.
Admit its your major failing and take cooking lessons at your communitys recreational center.
Procrastinate In
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Heres an example: the water heater was working fine until one cold winter morning, everyone started shouting Theres no hot water! And spending time with their friends is an excellent excuse for postponing school work. There are humanitarian organizations in your community that will provide referrals. Its all up to you. Weve procrastinated in performing our duties at home, in school, in the work place, and in our most fragile human relationships. |