Tip # 64 Its not what you say, its HOW you say it
No one says ending a relationship is easy. There have been documented accounts of people turning suicidal after a break-up, separation or divorce. They fall into a depression, and a few are unable to come out of it whole and able to trust again.
But if you procrastinate because youre worried about the aftermath, youll only be doing the other person a disservice. Talk to your mate when you have full rein of your emotions.
Yes, honesty is still the best policy but this is where youll have to optimize on your diplomats skills. Choose your words, and dwell on the positive. Convince her that both of you would be better off with somebody else. Offer to remain friends so the transition is not emotionally devastating.
The same applies to the office.
Fight Procrastination
In deciding not to procrastinate, you may want to accompany this determination with clear cut and well defined goals.
Give this simplistic equation a thought or two: stress ? Hes a member of the basketball team, the president of the science club, the chief debater on campus, the volunteer who offers his services twice a week to accompany seniors to their doctors appointments. Here are some ways where people procrastinate: Tip # 5 Goals not met because of procrastination After listing the ways in which you procrastinate, make a second list of goals that you failed to achieve because you procrastinated. If the changes in your countrys health care act will affect you adversely, dont wait for others to take up arms. |