Tip # 63 Okay, so youre not impulsive but
I want to think things more. I dont want to hurt him. How many times have we heard that before? Men and women say they dont want to do anything especially end a relationship impulsively.
The problem is, youre the problem. Admit it. The relationships been going downhill for the last 12 months. Youve craved for freedom frequently, but you still cant get to tell your mate that loves gone out the window.
Stop pretending that you need to think things through. No matter how you analyze it, it all boils down to the same thing: time to move on. Here are examples of what your procrastination causes:
You deprive yourself of the mental freedom you need to concentrate on other aspects of your life,
You deprive yourself of the opportunity to meet other people who share your interests and with whom you can have a meaningful relationship,
You deprive your mate of the truth about how you feel
You deprive your mate of the opportunity to meeting other people,
You deprive your mate and yourself of the chance to find happiness again.
Just muster up the courage and say it. Time heals all wounds.
But dont use it to keep you from doing what youre supposed to do.
How To Deal With Procrastination
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And obviously an excellent reason to escape the drudgery of memos and customer calls and filling out return merchandise account forms. Thats the straight and honest answer. Learn to say no, no matter how much you like or admire a colleague. |