Tip # 64 Its not what you say, its HOW you say it
No one says ending a relationship is easy. There have been documented accounts of people turning suicidal after a break-up, separation or divorce. They fall into a depression, and a few are unable to come out of it whole and able to trust again.
But if you procrastinate because youre worried about the aftermath, youll only be doing the other person a disservice. Talk to your mate when you have full rein of your emotions.
Yes, honesty is still the best policy but this is where youll have to optimize on your diplomats skills. Choose your words, and dwell on the positive. Convince her that both of you would be better off with somebody else. Offer to remain friends so the transition is not emotionally devastating.
If you procrastinate some more, you may need more than a psychologist.
Procrastinating With
If you started a story but never got around to finishing it, fish it out of your hard drive and finish it.
Heres an example: the water heater was working fine until one cold winter morning, everyone started shouting Theres no hot water! Invest the time now rather than later. One of his recommendations was to respect the time of your team members, just as they do yours. Your parents have lost their autonomy and are in a home for the aged. |